Sometimes the hardest things to let go of, are the things that are out of your control. I think most of us would prefer to think that we can accomplish anything we put our mind to. In most cases, this can be true. But in some, it couldn't be the furthest from it. For the eternal optimist, this concept is even harder to accept. The same thing that drives them to accomplish great things, also prevents them from having what should come natural.
Its hard to explain but when things are truly out of your control, attempts to control it, usually make the situation worse, rather than better.
Case in point, when I was married, my ex-husband was diagnosed with severe PTSD. He was a military veteran, who had seen things some p