So lets talk about a subject that might make some people uncomfortable. I wont lie and say that molestation is a topic that I was dying to write about, but I do know that it is a very real issue, that most people would prefer stays hidden in a basement closet, where no one can see it. Let's face it, 9 times out of 10, you or someone you know has been a victim of molestation or you have been a perpetrator yourself. Unfortunately, it is not uncommon. Now don't get ashamed if yo

Let me start by saying that I TRULY...TRULY...desired to steer clear of this topic... I gave the Lord a dozen excuses on why I am not the right person to speak on this. I've been single, all of 3 months, and already I am feeling the pressure. To be honest, this is the same pressure that caused me to get married pre-maturely several years ago. Now, I'm back where I started, hopefully with a little more wisdom than before. For this blog, I want to talk about the different types

When I first saw the Beyoncé postpartum picture I wasn't very surprised that she looked "flawless". After taking a deeper look it made me think about the constant pressure our culture puts on us to heal quickly. In the age of tummy tucks vs. sit ups, quick money vs. savings bonds, and butt injections vs. squats, we've succumb to the pressure of not missing a beat, or having prolonged moments of "ugliness". I myself, have fallen victim to giving the appearance of healed vs. tr